Day-28

 

 

Bad is Good

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We know the value of light during the dark. Likewise we know it is good when we know it is bad. A person in a desert knows what water is than a person sitting

inside his air conditioned room. In short, when it is bad I feel we should rather smile, than frown and be sad, since, then we would know and understand the value of good. When something bad has happened, it is time for good to follow and we would enjoy that moment. Unless something does not go down ( Potential Energy ), it would never go up ( Kinetic energy ). While potential energy is hidden and un-interesting kinetic is visible and interesting. This is why we focus more on what we see, the kinetic energy, when it is actually the potential energy that is the reason for good ( Kinetic ). Just think, our feet has to thrust pressure downwards to lift itself up, and so we can walk. Try lifting legs without putting pressure downwards..I would say impossible. I tried it too and realized this. All in all, every good is followed by every bad. So, the next time something goofs time for a party... you know why, don't you ? Its time for the good now.

 

Sometimes, I pity the sons and daughters of rich people, since, they would never know what it is to live with limited means and so they would never know what it is like enjoying their unlimited means also i.e without bad they would not know what is good also...poooor rich guys.

 

Learning : You might have seen a lot of bad things in life, but, you would also be the one to enjoy equally, since, you now know what is good like. Reason for you to smile   . You have had enough of that Potential energy invested.. now is the time to unleash that energy and enjoy the visible and interesting Kinetic one.

Day-27

One Wish
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What would be that one wish you would want if you were told that it would be granted? Probably this is one question I feel, would totally depend on the present situation. As for me this question is not new at my end. I have asked this wish to myself a hundreds of times and it generally corners to one answer :- Smile and Happiness and Peace everywhere. Yes there are those on priority whom I want to see the most, My family and my near ones and to the ones whom I am specific, I would give all that it takes to see this wish come true ( You are one of them ). Often I feel I have to bribe God for this, but how ? I guess serving the needy is one such way. Do let me know if there is any other way you might want to share.

Learning : I do not take things for granted so easily, and I will make sure I abide to what I say and you will help me in this endeavour. I will prove it, just be by my side.

Nothing much to say today..my eyes are giving up.. red..watery, headache and drowsiness and I dont know what to do.. I am still alone as I was 19 years from now. Again no one to share my stories with.  I thought you were there. Take care.. .

Day-26

Pa. -  PRESENT -  Fu.
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We often talk about the past, future and the Present. Now just ponder for a second. Done ? Only the present is real while the past and future are merely the outcomes of the present. So the question is why do we repent for the past? or if we put it in another way, why do we desire from the future ? While it should be that we should only care for the present i.e either we repent or desire. So, it is from the present that past came into existance and future would be shaped from. While the past is gone and nothing can be done we can certainly shape the future. Present is the SOUL while past and Future is the bad and good form of the present. Past is bad because it is not perfect and there is room for improvement while future is good since it lies in our hands and is under our control. Think, when the present dies, so does the past and the future. They are just a sort of mirror or rightly put as illusion. Now only a fool would repent and waste the present and make it another past and so on, until our future is also screwed..makes sense ? Now is the time to wakeup, every single second is only a beginning and we have whole new opportunities to explore and give our future a perfect past. Mind it.. you are the PRESENT.

Learning : Death is certain, everyone would face oneday. But until then, reach your goal or atleast try to. Fullfill all your desires and ambitions. Be involved so much that you even do not have time for death. And trust me, when you reach this level you would never know you ever died and you would be immortal like your soul.

Day-25

JOURNEY
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Everyone has his own path, destined to reach a goal right from the chilhood. Just that, the path in between our lifetime keeps changing but it still would lead us to the same destiny. Sometimes, the journey changes its course and no more remains the same yet our destiny stays intact. One such journey I just lived by. Though aware of the fact that it would still reach me where I am destined to, yet to walk along the same path one would still give away anything. Sometimes we even try to travel along others' path and feel what they do in them. And at times we are so much into it that we forget our own. Still, to live along such a journey is worth any happiness. Their goals become ours and their dreams become ours. We travel such journey and the path suddenly seems to dissappear and we find ourselves like we are in the middle of some dream. Still, we enjoy it to the fullest. Sometimes life's best moments are left untold because any effort made to jot it down would only cause injustice to such moments due to the lack of language alone to express it. I wish to travel such a journey again.

Learning : Whatever path you take keep focussing towards your goal and the obstacles like I always say would automatically dissappear.

Day-24

LIKE Vs LOVE
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There is one word in english language that can precisely differentiate between the two Ls( Love and Like ) quoted above. That one word is undoubtedly " Expectation ". Yes, most of would not want to believe this, but not wanting to believe it does not do away with the Truth. When we Like we expect while when we Love we have no expectation, it is sort of one sided irrespective of the other. If we like a flower we pluck it and keep or gift it but when we love it we water it( inspired ). Hope the exapmle which opened up my senses have justified yours too. Thus, it is love when we have no expectations. there is not expectations between us and our parents, irrespective of anything we would be together. This is love.

Ask a tree what pure love is? Right from its birth it never learnt to expect. No matter how it was treated it always believed in giving and serving. From leaves, flowers, fruits and its own body ( Wood ) it never said no to anything. We Humans do not pay heed to go and show our love in return. We are selfish and try to satisfy our hunger with expectations. The day we give this up we would realize what love is. But sadly, we would never.  Does not a tree weep when it is cut? Yes it does, but only for the sake of love. Does not a tree feel hurt when it sees its fellow partner beside it being cut when they both have lived for years and centuries? We kill their friends and families not thinking even for a second what trauma it might be in but the tree still bears fruit. It never says no, cause that is the nature it possesses.

Humans are just weak beings and to be 1% what a tree is would still make him worth this world.

Learning : If you loved, tears would still be there but with a smile. If you liked, tears would be there but without a smile. So one knows what like or love truely is.

Day-23

DISSOLVE
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Take some sugar ( which is visible ) and stir it in a glass of ..uumm say Coffee. What do you see ? Only coffee. Where is the sugar then? Well, it is now not just in coffee but it has dissolved in it losing its identity. What do we call this, a sacrifice ?..sort of but truely worth. Only when you would take a sip of coffee would you then realize the importance of sugar that has made coffee sweeter. How nice it would be if we could become sugar too and add sweetness in others lives. Why only think of ourselves ? Why just let us down with our own circumstances ? Why repent for our own mistakes? Why become the prisoner of our own device ? does a tree stop giving fruit ? No .. Similarly why do we stop sweeting. We as humans have immense potential and could easily sweeten peoples' lives. We have our own dreams and aspirations..why not add sugar to it and make it sweeter instead of repenting the spoilt one ( Past experiances ). Again excess of sugar leads to bitterness. We just need to balance it and make sure we do not concentrate it in one particular area, else it loses value. Anything in excess invites trouble and excess sugar too loses its worth. Distribute it and it would work wonders.

Let us all become sugar and sweeten everything around us while also maintaining balance to provide just a fine taste.

Learning : You are among the best of sugars and you could easily enhance the sweetness in your dreams and everything around you. Try to dissolve yourself once and good surprises would be common in your life. In the meantime, let me try to prepare nice coffee like you do, hope it tastes good else my friend sugar would always be there for the rescue :)

Day-22

 

DECISIONS

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This is probably one when it comes to right or wrong, black and white. Probably if I turn the pages of my life, I have not had many under my hoods. And one who has mastered this art would certainly be able to distinguish themselves from the normal humans I feel. In fact it is the toughest thing to do. Either ways it brings tears to your eyes whether or not you wish to.

 

Learning : There is nothing much in this, just a good timing and keeping your brain totally isolated from heart would allow you taking it with 100% success, I feel. And oh yes, always have things crystal cleared at your end. I would be there to help in this just incase required.

 

Day-21

 

 

THE DARKNESS

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They call it the absence of light which signifies something bad or concealed. It generally brings in fear and uncertainity among the masses. It symbolizes bad omen they say. Who they God knows..I don't give a shit as well. To me darkness signifies more of peace, silence and calmness. Imagine only daylight all the time and we would deprive our sleep. It is this darkness that prepares us for the daylight and gives us sleep and with it, dreams. Infact thanks to the darkness because of which we see the light and knows its importance. I believe preparing for the worst or dark would help us reach our goals more easily.

 

So, seek this darkness as an opportunity and take it to your advantage and you can play the devil's game until you reach your fame all in the darkness name. Stars are admired only in the darkness.

 

Learning: Now that you know u r in this phase use it as an opportuniy to build foundation for tomorow. " Andhera kayam rahe " ..bilkul rahe but not always.

Day-20

 

PRIDE

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One word when used in a true sense even outweighs success. Well its now been 40 Mins already and I am still speechless. Certainly it has volumes to speak on itself and not an easy thing to acquire especially by our own blood.

 

Just a one liner, You certainly have one of the world's best father who could raise you all and make you capable enough stand on your own pair of legs. There is so much to learn from him. Whatever happens, keep him smiling and be his support, with tears only down, when smile shows. You see a rainbow only when both sun ( Smile ) and water ( Tears ) appear simultaenously. See, you are lucky cause not everyone has such a loving and caring father.

 

Learning : This time I have a lot to learn and you may want provide me tips to become like him.

 

Day-19

 

 

HATRED

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Bitter is this term to an extent that I would prefer to use it as 'IT' instead of its Noun form ( To be frank I HATE using this word ). Either you love a person or you don't, then what is Hate ? Where did it come from? Well, like all the negativity in and around us, this word too has lately been gaining popularity due to the fact that it is an alternative to a solution. When a Man is unable to unwound his own err, he seeks help of this word to justify his ego. And ego is the root of almost all the negativity. People who have failed in their lives use it to prove their failure. And this form of negativity is only prelavent among the humans, the majority of which fake emotions. Just imagine,  did the trees stop bearing fruit after witnessing so much of deforestation? The answer is No. And the only possible reason is they have no ego. there is no negativity in them. They are pure and chaste. They are capable of sustaining the life of humans. And imagine if they would have ego ? We would have died without food and we in turn would be used only as a fertilizer and again Tree would benefit from it. I wish, tree had ego too and only then humans would start thinking about ending the negativity. Sometimes I pity the human race, since a tree while being an asset does not have an ego and we as humans being a liability have so much.

 

Hating is not a sloution ,its a birth to a new problem, your problem. There are already so many things to do in life, why waste it, why not start embracing things, the world would certainly become a better place to live in.

 

Learning :  Don't waste energy in hating some people instead use it in loving some other. You will remain automatically happy and trees would pray for your well being too.

Day-18

 

PROBABILITY

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OK, lets start from the start. What was the probability that this universe would ever exist ? I assume say 1. Now what was the probability that there would exist this solar system in this universe, very little. What was the probability that the Sun existed ? Again what was the probability that there existed Earth in it ? What was the probability that distance between Earth and Sun was such that earth was neither hot nor cold always ? But among all these odds, it have been possible, though little. Continuing further, what was the probability that Biophere existed on Earth ? what was the probability that water would have been a part of the Biosphere. ? Again very little was the probability that life existed. And little was the probability that life was transformed to Monkeys. Now after all such odds even if a layman ( forget the mathematician ) were to be asked what was the probabilty that Humans existed he would have told very little given into the circumstances that all the conditions which in itself was almost very little probable, Humans would have not existed.

 

Now the point to ponder is, why is it that we as humans after beating all the odds have taken birth to make this world a better place speak about failures ? Fine, even if we do, then why is it that we keep thinking ablout it and waste our present and then future also? If our life could beat so much odds and take birth with almost probability tending to 0 Zero, talk about death and repent our failures. Are we so weak ? No, we aren't. We know we have an immense potential to mould our life for the better of one and all.

 

Learning : So, do not think of the damages due to setbacks. Accept the past, live the present and surely the future will think of itself. Nothing has been lost until we lose ourselves. And as long as our heart beats we have life, we have nothing to lose. You may think you have nothing to lose but I have a lot to lose if I lose you. Be with me to be with you.

Day-17

JOURNEY

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A path we follow our life to a goal. And all the adventures we come along while travelling this path is what I think a complete journey is. What good a journey without any adventure. There would not be zeal and enthusiasm in reaching the goal then. And it is this that keeps us moving. Even electricty would have failed had not it been for the resistance. There are those lows and those highs, there are speed breakers and bumps on the path but life still travels this path each step. Infact if we now closely see, it is this Journey that makes up this life. On this path, sometimes we ourselves fall, at timess othes fall us, there is so much of push and so much of pull that we start getting irritated with life and begin complaining. Irritations and complaints are like heat generated due to resistance. And yes, it would burn the circuit and immediately bring the life to an end also.

 

So why do we bother so much about this resistance in our life? . Why is it that our car breaks down in this path ? And why is it that we search for an alternative when there is none ? The reason is simple, we are not equipped with coolants and MCBs inside us that could help us regulate this heat. We being humans are wonderfulf creation of God. Why don't we harness our potential and equip ourselves with coolannts and circuit breakers ? is still a question's question.

 

Ask a cheese how important is it in being between a burger or a sandwich is and similarly ask Life how important is it in being between birth and death is.

 

Learning : Whenever your coolant is out, I would be ready to share mine with you, just keep moving and don't you dare to speak of the end so soon.

Day-16

 

SLEEP

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This is something normally each one of us take for granted including me. Just realized one thing today which I feel I should share. When we are in pain, grief or we are sad, we normally do not come out of it. It becomes impossible to think something else when someone has been hurt. We keep thinking of the past no matter how hard we try to come out of it. But had it not been Sleep, I guess we would have been in a much more difficulty. Like a Mother, Sleep comes to us and takes all our pain and grief with her while giving us peace of mind. I think everyone of us should respect this beautifull part of our life and give thoughts to improve it.

 

If God granted me one wish now than I would have asked something like sleep that would forget our pains even while awake and still be happy. And till then I thank sleep for being kind enough to my Sweetest Devil.

 

Learning : Until that wish has been granted I wish u get my part of sleep also, atleast I would be awake and could see you without pain and grief. Believe me I would be more happy to see you in this way than see you in pain.